Although he is desperate to be in a relationship, he just can’t image the thought of approaching women much less being able to start a conversation. He is just scared to approach women!
And so you choose to linger around hoping for the next chance, where you can finally show them how great of a catch you are.
I mean come on the guy on that show "VH1 Pick Up Artist" was wearing GOGGLES on his head!!
I can remember being in junior high and just even the thought of approaching the girl I had a crush on was a sweaty situation.
If you wait to long then she may forget who you are. If you call to soon you might come off desperate.