Forget Brad Pitt, Use Angelina…

Forget Brad Pitt Use Angelina…

A lot of guys, when they go out to a bar or club, or even if they’re hanging out at a coffee shop, and they see a beautiful woman, they’ll automatically think to themselves, “wow, she’s way out of my league.” It’s a subconscious thing – most of us do it without even thinking about it. We’ll then stay far away from her for the rest of the time. Instead, we might approach a woman who we perceive as being more in our “league”.

Sound familiar? Have you found yourself doing this in the past? If so, it ends now. You’re only hurting yourself by doing this, both by denying yourself the possible pleasure of this woman’s company and by sending signals that you’re not good enough for the really classy gorgeous women.

Wait…..“but,” you’re asking, “this girl has this aura around her that makes me feel like something she just scraped off her shoe. What the hell am I gonna say to get passed that?”

Well, there are a couple things you can do. If her “stay-away-I’m-too-cool-for-school” shield is in full effect, just walk by and say hi, followed by something like, “you might be waiting for Brad Pitt to come and sweep you off your feet, but I think Angelina might get to you first?” Point out another women in the place and see what happens. If that doesn’t earn a smile or another positive sign, just go about your business and check back in a bit. Ask “is she still at it?”  Or, maybe you’ll find that the second time around, if you just talk to her, she’ll start to thaw.

See, these women are used to all kinds of hooligans coming up and trying all kinds of things to get a response from them. Naturally, after a while, they don’t want to deal with it, so they erect this cold wall around them that steers people away. If you persevere, though, and you say something unexpected and don’t turn on the flattery, you might surprise her into talking to you like a person. And from there, the sky’s the limit.

So, the next time you see a classy looker who your mind automatically wants to avoid, fight that impulse and engage her. Keep your head up, shoulders back, and lead in with something witty – it could be a comment about someone else or a teasing  jab at her cool, elegant nature, like “by the way you carry yourself you seem part of the royal family, but I am curious how big of a dorky side you have?” That’s a little dig on her unattainability but also tells her you think she’s hot at the same time. It’s not a total put down, but not a pick-up line either. This is exactly the kind of thing that has a good chance of peaking her curiosity about you, at least enough to compel her to chat for a bit. If you can accomplish that, you’re well on your way to an interesting evening. If she gives you the cold shoulder, shrug it off and go on with your night.

Baby steps count to and there is always a lesson in everything, even cold shoulders!

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Eric Eros

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